Oh how I wanted to do a Korea Blog like all the others out there…

But, in all seriousness…I just couldn’t.

Though you may read this a lot, I am just underpaid for the amount of work I do. Well, all the teachers in my younger division are.

Normally this wouldn’t be that much of a problem.

I mean, there is a lot of work that I have to do even if I were a teacher back home. A lot of extra time that isn’t really clocked.

That isn’t the case here.

Being paid merely for teaching hours, can be brutal.

In addition, the other section doesn’t seem to understand the amount of work that we do.

As someone who splits her time evenly between the two sections, I can speak for both. I get that each has their own difficulties. More behvioural issues with the older, whereas there is more detail common sense situations in the younger.

So, I really hated hearing..”I would rather do ____ cause it is sooooo easy.”


Please. Please do my job for a week, and let us see how you turn out.


The reason I cannot sleep tonight…
is because a change is upon me.

After a month, I shall be promoted to a position. Usually this would mean something completely different in the bigger chain. However, it just means more hours added to what I am doing.

The thing is, I was excited to be offered it.

Why? Especially when I knew I had to work more hours.

The fact is, in the last 6 months, the direction of things had taken a turn for the worse. The previous holder of the position, failed to maintain the duties of their job.

As such, the Principal has been kept in the dark about the issues that have gone on within.

The previous holder, has received all this extra money…just to glorify themselves, rather than work for the greater good.

I get that not everyone can, or should want to work for the greater good.

I also get that not everyone sees this as a profession.

But the disrespect was something that was difficult to swallow.

Why didn’t I mention this sooner to the higher ups?

I did when I had an issue that the previous holder. I called them out on their BS “job”.
I then pulled our Principal out for coffee at a coffee store, and had to turn everything out.

I reassured him that this wasn’t because I wanted the job, rather that I would rather the party be held accountable for the position that they were supposed to have been doing. To settle my frustrations, I was told that one person was already being cultivated to replace the individual when they left.

Fast forward to now.
The other new party still needs time to adjust. As such, I am the best option at the moment.

Which is why I accepted the position.

Failing to remember to negotiate a proper increase in pay to cover the additional work I would be doing with the new responsibilities. My friend already worries about me -____-

I spent some time researching, but failed to come up with a salary range for the position OTL

But, I want the students to benefit from the place as much as we can offer to them. At the rate that we are going right now, there is not much we can offer them…if we factor in the issues caused by others.

So, I need to overhaul the system. Rather, I need to restore it back to what is was 6 months before.

Yes, this place might be in the money making business…but as long as I am there, I am putting my students first. I won’t disrespect my students by bribing them/buying their love. I won’t strive for the superficial ratings. I would rather build a firm ground, where they can understand that I am working for them as a student. Not them, as a money maker.

We will see how things go.

For now, I just need to hang in for 4 more weeks, 3 if you include the fact that I will be back in Toronto for a week.

Prayers, or any other experience/guidance is always welcome :)


Attempting to revive the semi dead blog…

Hello Folks!

I am alive :)
If you follow me on Instagram, you already knew this.

In any case, I am alive…and relatively well.

I was in Toronto for a week on some personal matters, and still adjusting my sleep schedule back to KST (Korean Standard Time). As such…it is 6:23am over here, and I am still awake OTL

Well, it has been 5.5 months since I have entered Korea.

Am I homesick? Well, no. I can’t really be since I got to visit home. But even as I was heading home, I was ready to come back to Korea. Of course I missed my close friends (and lucky for me I got to see them all at least twice), but I am rather enjoying the freedom that comes with working abroad. It almost makes me wish I had a desk job. One that would allow me to travel to different sister branches.


But not quite.

I still know that this isn’t something I want to do for the long run. I do have to return home. I have some things I need to get done. However, for the next 7 months, I hope that things will continue to go well.

How are you?

I have been horrible with keeping up with my fav blogs, which I hope to rectify soon.

I have also been horrible with keeping up my own blog…which I also hope to rectify soon.

In any case, I am alive, and well.

Hope you are too :)

I leave you with this BEAUTIFUL engagement capture. Can’t wait to meet this talented duo in the fall.

John & Veronica Photography (Toronto)

Attempting to revive the semi dead blog…


…May 15 KST, or May 14 EST marked the 3 month anniversary of my arrival into Korea.

3 months.

In around 180 days, I will be back in Canada for a week.

In around 280 days, I will be done my first year in Korea.

Providing I make it that far.

One of the biggest challenges about being here, is the fact that you have to re-establish yourself.

I went out with some people a few weeks back. One of them paid the whole tab as they didn’t have cash. The next day, I paid back my share of the tab.

I was thanked for being considerate enough.

That, to me, was common sense. Something I wouldn’t think twice about. I don’t think I should have to be told I owe a certain amount.

Or, wanting to give my all when it comes to certain things. One had commented on it…and they had made it sound like I was trying too hard. If I took it negatively, as if I were trying to upstage them. With my years of working with younger individuals, training, and schooling, it is just how I am to work in that fashion. I do not play with the lives of individuals who are still so impressionable.

Then there was the event where I picked up a coffee for someone just because.

You are so Canadian.


I like thinking of my friends and randomly surprising them with a drink. Why should that be considered something typical?

Even today…I had an issue.

I broke…I cried.


Had to hide all traces of it.

Apparently, having people not know who I am, is weird. I guess in that sense I am homesick. I’m not sick of my surroundings, nor the children. I just miss being able to be understood, without having to explain it all.

I guess it doesn’t help that I talked to two of my closest friends the other day. Still waiting on one, but not sure how I am going to fit that in.

Not sure if this makes sense.

I’m just all bottled up, and need to get this out before I attempt some sleep.

On the plus side, I was able to chat with one of the teachers a week ago, and boy was I super thankful. To just rant as if I was back home with my fav ladies. I’m also thankful that there are a few who had been awesome enough to make me laugh.

So, despite the minor hiccup, I am thankful.

Now, I just need to make sure I hold on.


Looking forward to 2015!

…and hello to 2015!!

As you read this, I wanted to take the time to thank you.

2014 was a rough year for me for various reasons. Even with my break from the blog, one thing that motivated me was to get back to my blog. It did take much longer than I had hoped, but boy was it great to be back here.

Recently, I have also have had many new blog subscribers on WordPress. I wanted to thank you for even wanting to subscribe! I also found out, that there were a lot of email subscribers…some of whom have been following for years.

Thank you.

For reading the rambles…for putting up with all the typing errors that I glossed over.

Thank you for sticking by. Thank you for subscribing…cause that still amazes me. Just…thank you.

I am expecting a few changes in my life very soon (which you already kind of know if you read some of my late night posts), and can’t wait to start that chapter.

So, I hope that 2015 will bring the very best for us all! May you be healthy, be surrounded by great people, and live life to the fullest this upcoming year…as I will try to as well :D


Have a great day folks!

Looking forward to 2015!

Looking back on 2014

Let’s look back on my 2014. It was a bit of a rough year for me in a lot of different ways…but it is nice looking back on how far I’ve come.


  • Aside from the fact that I was sick, I didn’t start off the new year the way I would have thought
  • Watched American Hustle
  • Got really stressed and upset with UT. I swear they seek to screw you over
  • Celebrated my birthday
  • Hung out with the rest of the #BeautyUnited for the Grammy preview party at the Thompson Hotel
  • Met a cool gal in my Poetry class. Prof was pretty awesome, and taught us a lot about a world that I didn’t really know much about


  • Went to the Pantene Beauty Hair Blow Out, had fun catching up with the lovely ladies (my hair looked awesome)
  • Played lazer tag for our annual HPA get together, love this family of mine
  • Took a break


  • Realized that even those you might have known for over a decade…can let you down in the worst of ways possible
  • I started blogging again, just as I started in the first place. A form of self therapy
  • Realized that UTM is a hardass
  • Love that a classmate had my back, despite only having known me for a month
  • Decided to ban Tucker’s Marketplace, after the EXTREMELY poor way they handled an issue at one of their restaurants. They are lucky my mother didn’t get hurt, otherwise I would have turned my dear awesome personal injury lawyer on them. As a side note, it was only after the mention of a lawyer to intercede that they even asked if we were okay. Not cool. Never again.


  • Dearest Friend got engaged :D the third from my high school group of friends. Wish I could have celebrated with her and her Fiancees friend’s…too bad we weren’t in the inner circle *cries*
  • Bought a ticket for a week get away to Korea. Commence countdown
  • Thankful that my Prof took me aside to talk to me. Why didn’t they have Profs like this when I first started in University? I would have had a much better time then. Plus, I had a lot of fun learning in her classes.
  • I’m a bridesmaid :)
  • Had an unexpected visitor the last day of the semester, just after I wrote an exam. Was not cool. (No, it wasn’t Aunt Flow)


  • PBunnieP came to Toronto, and we got to hang out :D
  • Won the Shiseido Cotton Giveaway :D (and the post I shared half a year later lol)
  • Started summer school. But it’s okay, it will be the last. Plus I met some nice people
  • Partial closure


  • Disappointment in our CJS
  • Got scolded by my friend. That is what friends are supposed to be like. They should challenge you when they think you are taking the wrong path/made a mistake (I’m looking back at this now…and cannot for the life of me remember what they scolded me for…I hope that when the situation comes up again…I act according to the new view…)
  • Friend got engaged, 4th from our old high school group
  • Attended the uber fun Annabelle Party
  • Found out I won theInsiders LePage giveaway tool kit
  • Got my first Pandora ring thanks to their promo sale. Was a big deal for me lol. Friend and I took ages to pick them out
  • Found the family registry for my dads side of the family, for when he and my mother got married. Was interesting learning more about his side of the family
  • Mom cut her hair. It is a longer version of the pixie cut. This is significant only because I haven’t seen her like that, and…it was weird lol but in a good way :)


  • Celebrated with a friend for her bachelorette
  • Palmolive Jug from Costco decided to unload itself in the trunk. Colgate Palmolive thought they were being SUPER nice to send me a generic email of apology and $10 in coupons. Does not cover the cleaning cost, or the actual cost of the product I had bought in the first place. Plus I didn’t like the dismissive nature of the suggestions to prevent this. That’s fine, I like PG and Dawn better anyway…
  • Got to see a friend I haven’t seen in ages
  • booked the place to stay while I am in Korea
  • Had an incident in the parking lot of Target…(as of the first week of December it was ‘resolved’. However, if they act like this on behalf of Target…guess who is not shopping at Target anymore. I ended up returning everything that I didn’t use out of spite. Lucky that their return policy is so long). Law friend still thinks I should take it further


  • Finally completed it. Success
  • Met up with pals, and laughed, made fun, gushed over random things for 4 hours at Starbucks. Thank goodness for the nice patio weather :D
  • Found out my plans for the upcoming year are going to be delayed a few months :T
  • Attended a friends wedding. Its funny because when we were kids, we hated each other because of the hand of a twisted girl we mutually knew. Luckily thanks to another good friend whom we  mutually know, brought us together again.


  • Spent a random day around the city, with good friend for her bday
  • Bought a battery bank. I find that news because it was so freaking hard to decide! lol
  • Received my replacement Nexus 4 phone, and got the Bzzkit
  • Participated in the Influenster Twitter chat, and won for participating (As of now, still haven’t received my prize :T)
  • KOREA 2014! It will be 4 years since I visited in December of 2010, so I am super glad to go
  • Climbed Bukhasan for kicks (hmm…I don’t know where those pictures are…)
  • Went to my first Jimjilbang!!! TOTALLY AWESOME! Totally worth trying not be embarrassed over :P


  • Danced away the night, celebrating the wedding of one of my closest guy friends. <3 to L & V


  • It may have taken forever, but I finally have it. This piece of paper took awhile, but I have it.
  • Got fingerprinted for clearance
  • Getting consulate run around


  • One month left to another change in life
  • Got the run around for the consul
  • Received a phone call which I didn’t care for anymore
  • Did a lot of paperwork
  • Tutored my last student at a place I’ve pretty much called home for nearly a decade
  • Thankful for all the opportunities that this blog has had over the last year. Thankful for all the new readers, commenters…friends :)
  • Guess who is sick (+ got cramps) for NYE? While friends are having fun at the house parties I was supposed to attend -___-
  • Excited to say goodbye to 2014…good riddance…
Looking back on 2014